Pre-teen whining and wants to be babied? - sweet pre teen
Me and my wonderful boyfriend live together with her two son is 11 and a sweet girl, and the other is 12, Alomost 13 very soon, a boy.
Children do not live with his mother for a while, but she could not and gave them to us.
as spoiled and never made them clean their room or in the kitchen or dishes or anything. She makes every meal and were ready in the morning .... He never has anything for themselves.
Me and my boyfriend are ideal for children .... Independent
Your daughter is good, rooms clean, they know how to operate a dishwasher, and that almost all the time, do not forget to clean behind them.
His son, on the other. Totally dependent. that by this school and may never make its own food without complaining, always complaining that there is nothing to eat because it does not really do anything, they prefer to eat in front of 3 things at once! What should I do? There is also a plaintiff BIG.
Monday, January 25, 2010
Sweet Pre Teen Pre-teen Whining And Wants To Be Babied?
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It is a time typically difficult for children of both sexes. However, the people have a little more emotional maturity of girls in general. He pushed between the houses is traumatic, especially if they are largely rejected by his mother, very difficult, especially for a toddler! No 'devotion to his moans, but I understand that this is probably his way of 1) Search for Care, and 2) tests to see if they refuse, as was his birth mother. Not an easy situation for you, But caution is the training of critical thinking about the opposite sex at that age and you are their role model. Remain calm, polite, determined, however. I found that the behavior of young people is very similar to the behavior of children to be independent want, but desperately need to know that you're here, ready to plunge back when things have too much fear. Again, be firm, do not do a list of tasks, informed, is quietly and without emotion, if you are sure decide these tasks will be consequences (eg, video games are reduced, TVremoved, the door of the hall of hinges are removed, etc.). rolandthelast this sounds, but you have to prove that what he said, and prepared to support them. Be concise. This will help you see, which is an important part of the family, and really you feel loved and needed, if you are good. Stay calm, or leave it "hook" in anger. If you're dinner clear that his decision not to eat, but no "snacks" and has everything to breakfast. Be sure to show you love (even if not sorry). It will not be easy, but they are consistent and you can resist, is much happier on the other end a better person and ultimately a healthier families /. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteIt is a time typically difficult for children of both sexes. However, the people have a little more emotional maturity of girls in general. He pushed between the houses is traumatic, especially if they are largely rejected by his mother, very difficult, especially for a toddler! No 'devotion to his moans, but I understand that this is probably his way of 1) Search for Care, and 2) tests to see if they refuse, as was his birth mother. Not an easy situation for you, But caution is the training of critical thinking about the opposite sex at that age and you are their role model. Remain calm, polite, determined, however. I found that the behavior of young people is very similar to the behavior of children to be independent want, but desperately need to know that you're here, ready to plunge back when things have too much fear. Again, be firm, do not do a list of tasks, informed, is quietly and without emotion, if you are sure decide these tasks will be consequences (eg, video games are reduced, TVremoved, the door of the hall of hinges are removed, etc.). rolandthelast this sounds, but you have to prove that what he said, and prepared to support them. Be concise. This will help you see, which is an important part of the family, and really you feel loved and needed, if you are good. Stay calm, or leave it "hook" in anger. If you're dinner clear that his decision not to eat, but no "snacks" and has everything to breakfast. Be sure to show you love (even if not sorry). It will not be easy, but they are consistent and you can resist, is much happier on the other end a better person and ultimately a healthier families /. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI will say one last time, then you can make your child a head Boyardee, incompetent parents that you ..
ReplyDeleteGive a pat on the back. Leave it to two? Tell him how pathetic action, it is funny, and then make him clean his room and a Sammich.
I will say one last time, then you can make your child a head Boyardee, incompetent parents that you ..
ReplyDeleteGive a pat on the back. Leave it to two? Tell him how pathetic action, it is funny, and then make him clean his room and a Sammich.
Tell 2 hereto or make everything yourself. or even better ... let him make something of himself. Because he wants to be pampered .. Baby him.
ReplyDeleteputberty maybe your school or exchange if they are joined in year 7
ReplyDeleteMy main suggestion is do not listen to / to give the groans. He complains because he to go with him when he's used to it. Her friend is to sit down and talk with him about his behavior and what is not acceptable. Because it is not his son, and you and your boyfriend are not married, leave the important things, like him. Her friend is to let you know that the rules are the rules, and you must follow these rules, and he needs to listen to you and you are an adult in the house, too.
ReplyDeleteNeeds as well as establishing a firm footing to bottom, are applied discipline. If you insist upon it as a child, then treat them as one - if not eat what you can give to eat, go to bed at that moment, sitting at the table until he eats, or nothing at all, as a glass of water until bedtime. When he complained, he was placed in the corner and set a timer, because it is 13 countries accounting for about 15 minutes, every time he starts to say something to complain or do anything, reset time. Either you remove the lock or instant products, junk food, and all OTHEr food he will eat the most. If he did not have breakfast, send him to school with nothing (if someone says something, just say that lunch is your responsibility, and if not, lunch). And more problems than you and your partner have with him should be the least privileges it, your buddies away their "rights of television, when and how long the computer-telephone in the case of school, the closest friends desert, video games, etc.
My main suggestion is do not listen to / to give the groans. He complains because he to go with him when he's used to it. Her friend is to sit down and talk with him about his behavior and what is not acceptable. Because it is not his son, and you and your boyfriend are not married, leave the important things, like him. Her friend is to let you know that the rules are the rules, and you must follow these rules, and he needs to listen to you and you are an adult in the house, too.
ReplyDeleteNeeds as well as establishing a firm footing to bottom, are applied discipline. If you insist upon it as a child, then treat them as one - if not eat what you can give to eat, go to bed at that moment, sitting at the table until he eats, or nothing at all, as a glass of water until bedtime. When he complained, he was placed in the corner and set a timer, because it is 13 countries accounting for about 15 minutes, every time he starts to say something to complain or do anything, reset time. Either you remove the lock or instant products, junk food, and all OTHEr food he will eat the most. If he did not have breakfast, send him to school with nothing (if someone says something, just say that lunch is your responsibility, and if not, lunch). And more problems than you and your partner have with him should be the least privileges it, your buddies away their "rights of television, when and how long the computer-telephone in the case of school, the closest friends desert, video games, etc.
My main suggestion is do not listen to / to give the groans. He complains because he to go with him when he's used to it. Her friend is to sit down and talk with him about his behavior and what is not acceptable. Because it is not his son, and you and your boyfriend are not married, leave the important things, like him. Her friend is to let you know that the rules are the rules, and you must follow these rules, and he needs to listen to you and you are an adult in the house, too.
ReplyDeleteNeeds as well as establishing a firm footing to bottom, are applied discipline. If you insist upon it as a child, then treat them as one - if not eat what you can give to eat, go to bed at that moment, sitting at the table until he eats, or nothing at all, as a glass of water until bedtime. When he complained, he was placed in the corner and set a timer, because it is 13 countries accounting for about 15 minutes, every time he starts to say something to complain or do anything, reset time. Either you remove the lock or instant products, junk food, and all OTHEr food he will eat the most. If he did not have breakfast, send him to school with nothing (if someone says something, just say that lunch is your responsibility, and if not, lunch). And more problems than you and your partner have with him should be the least privileges it, your buddies away their "rights of television, when and how long the computer-telephone in the case of school, the closest friends desert, video games, etc.